Saturday was the first day I've been to the beach in months, and with all my girlfriends too. I was a little nervous because they are all so tiny and have bodies like 18 year olds (we're all 24, 25 ), a few of them have boob jobs as well which can also add a little be of inadequacy to your thoughts. So I met up with them and realized that none of us are tiny teenagers anymore and we all have flaws. One of my friends, who is brutally honest and sometimes the truth really does hurt, but she said I looked great was crazy for thinking negatively. I wasn't fishing for compliments in any way, but sometimes you really need one to shut that little insecure voice in your head.